nonbinary, transmasc, & queer (gender goals summarized: folk metal, jack black, van wizard, pass as a guy, clocked as queer)

💉 10/31/2023!!

they/them, ze/hir, Mx., Mr., he/him (interchangeable, but only these)

neutral or masculine terms please

white; proudly a race traitor

neurodiverse, mentally ill, physically disabled, & immunocompromised. (ough owie I won the health lottery! 🙃 working on it with good docs at least)

leftist. kinda an eco-anarchist (minus anarcho-primitivism)

punk but more for the ideology than the fashion. i gotta be comfy and low effort.

polytheist/pagan

i don't like to share my face

spore-atic artist! 🍄 traditional arts like fiber art, painting, block printing, and sculpture are my favs. now slowly venturing into poetry and fiction.

90.0-95.9% T4T

married and happily so since 2018 (closed)

im a biology undergrad now 💚

furry (not the horny type but the "i'm deeply uncomfortable with my human body and creating an alternative representation of myself" type)

fellow trans people! fellow disabled people! fellow queer folx! fellow artists! fellow mentally anguished outcasts! i starve for connection with people who understand being othered

trying to love humanity despite all the suffering here

death care, funerary practices, & thanatology

the incredible diversity and possibilities within life

i really miss hiking in the mountains

ART! all genres and mediums, i love the act of creation. i love to know others create, i love to partake in your journey as a traveller and friend, and i love to create for myself. art is a shared ancestry and future, time travel really

language! learning more about the intricacies of english for poetry, but also other languages. currently studying german, swedish, and trying to recall my french

folklore/mythology/paranormal tales

gardening, nature, sustainability, permaculture, ecocentrism, bioremediation, restoration ecology, land back, responsible stewardship, native species, etc etc

exploring, foraging, collecting little treasures

appreciating slow moments and little details

ecopunk, solarpunk, goblincore, hopepunk. i love dirt

TTRPGs

speculative fiction, horror, sci-fi/fantasy, weird fiction, trying to become as well read in "classics" as reasonable, and a whole lot of nonfiction too. i love reading and learning!

i love animals so much? and plants? life is amazing tbh (microfauna, mesofauna, arthropods, trees, fungi, and inverts are my favs)

thrifting to give things a new home, and appreciate the imprint another life had upon them, visible mending, re-using whatever i can

true crime...forensics, justice for victims, highlighting failures of the justice system, and history. (please no fetishists)

cooking & baking...trying new flavors and techniques, feeding people i love

wizards, especially vintage van wizards

games: baldur's gate, elder scrolls, dragon age, resident evil, sky: cotl, fallout, dishonored, diablo, minecraft, zelda, animal crossing, pathfinder, d&d

comics: hellboy mostly, but i love reading indies. i'm kinda meh on marvel & dc anymore.

authors: impossible question tbh

music: glass animals is special to me and my partner, but otherwise i kinda listen to whatever? i love to try new jams from all over and all genres (including country and rap thanks)

the painful brevity of human life

systems of oppression & those who uphold them

fascists, cops, politicians 🐷

imperialism, colonialism, manifest destiny

individualism

consumerism

anti maskers who want me to stop wearing my mask

how bad i am at socializing and making friends

TERFs & TEHMs

how hard it is to stay informed about global events without consuming biased reporting

possessed dolls, porcelain dolls in general that aren't even possessed

abusive, discriminatory, and/or negligent medical providers

tornadoes are one of my biggest fears, but any natural disasters scare the shit outta me

whiteness, white culture, white society, white supremacy

AI art, NFTs, crypto

capitalism, consumerism, mass production, people being forced to be dependent on irresponsibly produced intentionally defective goods that never decompose

serial killer fetishism

scabs, strikebreakers, union busters

industrial agriculture, irresponsible modern farming/agribusiness

waterparks (i had an incident we don't discuss)

ableist and anti-homeless design

disrespecting, violating boundaries & parasocial relationships

destruction of third spaces and fracturing communities

lactose and it being in everything

politics, tbh. i wish i didn't have to be so involved or care so much about politics. i hate that my existence is inherently political so much

non medical plastics

fast fashion

eye contact makes me uncomfortable

videos without subtitles because I literally can't understand them

people who refuse to even try adding alt text or img descriptions

probably like 75% of cishets? sorry the trust isn't there until earned